Wonderfully Made – Build Successful Marriages

Nobody walks down the aisle without the hope of living, happily ever after, but why is it that most of our married couples today end up like ‘married singles’? The answer possibly lies in the 4Ds towards the Big D (Divorce!):

1 . Disappointment

It first starts when couple fails to meet each other’s expectations as they start to live under 1 roof, like why is this not done, I thought u will take care of the house etc.

2. Discouragement
Overtime after repeated unresolved conflicts & disappointments, the couple gets pretty discouraged w the situation & with each other.

3. Disconnect
Conflicts unresolved turns into resentment over time & resentment kills off loving communication. Without communication, they start to get disconnected emotionally from their spouse & this opens up doors of emotional infidelity especially when there are other outlets where their emotional needs can be met. Talk about sms flirting, deep sharing of problems with someone other than spouse etc. Before he or she knows, they can develop emotional attachment (emotional infidelity) to another person other than his spouse.

4. Discord
Emotional infidelity becomes actual infidelity. The infidelity finally got found out and is the last straw and the final trigger for divorce.

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Hope you are not having 2nd thoughts about marriage. We think its better to know & hence take precautions that will ensure that our marriage is one tt stays for life. Marriage is hard work. But marriage is supposed to be blissful & intimate.

However, failure in marital intimacy is often not a result of ill intentions on anyone’s part, but is often because we’re ill-informed on the critical pitfalls of love.

Our Love Successfully classes are specifically designed to bring comprehensive understanding to the issues that determine the success of a relationship. Call us now, to find out more.