Love eludes even the highest beauty of all
Leo | December 11th, 2008 | Love and Relationship, Successful Marriages | No Comments »
It is heartbreaking to read about my teenage heartthrob, Vivian Chow’s recent agony about her boyfriend of 19 years, Joe Ni, cheating on her.
Cheating? Some may say not quite. Those who knows the story, would claim Joe Ni simply got caught by the paparazzi, french-kissing a hot 24 year old. Not quite the same as committing a full fledged adultery.
In fact, news are breaking out now that he’s fully ashamed of his act and wrote an apology letter to Vivian.
But alas, emotional infidelity is as true as actual adultery itself. Before a man cheats on his partner, he first crosses the boundaries of temptation, through many tell-tale avenues – a playfully flamboyant lifestyle, history of infidelity and deceit, intimate behaviour with others other than his partner…
It is sad if Vivian still could not see it.
It is in the integrity of a man to stay faithful to his partner. If he has it, he has it. If he does not have it, don’t hope for it.
Relationship can be simple and satisfying when we obey the rules and laws of it. But when we fail to do so, love eludes even the highest beauty of all.
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Coach comments:
Relationship Rules flaunted include that both are not married. Subtly, it’s as good as saying that it is ok to have sex out of marriage.
Failure to understand tell tale signs and patterns (see above italics) and step out of the relationship. Usual mistake of most failed relationships – the heart is the master over the head.
