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Twilight New Moon – Who would you choose? Edward or Jacob

The awaited sequel of the vampire series – The Twilight Saga: New Moon did not fail to disappoint with their impressive graphics, artistic scenes and.. the love triangle romance of the 3 hottest Hollywood stars of the moment. After the show, I couldn’t resist my temptation to ask Roxanne, “Who would you choose if you were Bella? The [...]

Tiger Woods Affairs – ‘Roving eyes of Men’ Part 2

Even as a young man, I know how badly I struggled with pornography and masturbation. The innate lustful nature in me governs this aspect of my life. I am a good kid with a reasonable background, but when it comes to sexual desires, the monstrous hormones seemingly take control of it all. Pornography was an [...]

Tiger Woods Affairs – ‘Roving eyes of Men’ Part 1

You must have read about Tiger Woods and his strings of affairs. Did you also read of Joanne Soh’s column in response of Mr Woods escapades: “My mum is right: Men are pigs“ in the New Paper? Her column received a barrage of replies via the forum, most of whom criticizes her for putting men down [...]

Tell-tale Signs of Divorce

Nobody walks down the aisle without the hope of living, happily ever after, but why is it that most of our married couples today end up like ‘married singles’? The answer possibly lies in the 4Ds towards the Big D (Divorce!): 1 . Disappointment It first starts when couple fails to meet each other’s expectations [...]

Tipping Point for Singapore to be Sexually Infectious?

I read a report today citing how British backpackers when they travelled to Australia, often had triple the number of sexual partners they would have at home. The really sad thing is, even for those who are already married or have a partner at home, 39.7% of them continued to have multiple sexual partners in [...]

‘Work Life Balance’ in Marriage

To me, work life balance essentially means time with my wife. In a society like Spore, it’s hard to practice work life balance. We have a culture where it’s the norm to work late past your working hours. In many companies, when you leave on time, you will be frowned upon, though there’s actually nothing [...]

Love Successfully

Many people were surprised when I shared with them the concept of Courtship Preparation Course? Does it even sell? Is it popular? Would people even sign up? This is what I usually tell them, and the latest abuse case of celebrities Chris Brown on Rihanna proves my point. We all know that Marriage Preparation Course [...]

Have Sex with “I”?

On 31 Jan 2009, The Straits Times published an article that reported on a worrying uptrend of underage sex and rape cases. In it, it was cited that rape cases in 2008 shot up to 109 from 72 in 2007. There was also a sharp rise in girls below the age of 16 having sex, with [...]

Difference between Jealousy and Love

Leo | December 21st, 2008 | Love and Relationship, Successful Marriages | No Comments »

I got to share part of my past relationship stories with 30 over friends and guests at a Christmas party yesterday. And one thing I talked about was my jealousy and that it had sabotaged my relationship. Often, people would say jealousy is a prove that you love the other person, but actually that is [...]

Love eludes even the highest beauty of all

Leo | December 11th, 2008 | Love and Relationship, Successful Marriages | No Comments »

It is heartbreaking to read about my teenage heartthrob, Vivian Chow’s recent agony about her boyfriend of 19 years, Joe Ni, cheating on her. Cheating? Some may say not quite. Those who knows the story, would claim Joe Ni simply got caught by the paparazzi, french-kissing a hot 24 year old. Not quite the same as committing a full [...]